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I am in my forties now with a beautiful Wife and a gorgeous baby girl. I will have to say in my 30 years + experience in staying in shape, exercising and dieting that to really find effective weight loss you must possess the right frame of mind.
I think this is more important than anything else if you want to stay healthy and get slim and in shape.
One of the biggest reasons why some people become morbidly obese is because they go through dramatic emotional and mental issues. These issues range from Depression, worries about the loss of a job, family and marital problems and a slew of other things.
The thing is people get stressed out and resort to binge eating or eating unhealthy as a coping mechanism.
I would say this is probably over 80% of the problem resulting in Obesity. People use food as a way to escape or a way to blow off steam.
So what to do about this ??
First of all, a person has to recognize this behavior and own up to it . Acknowledging the problem you have is the most crucial step. So you must take a personal inventory of yourself and identify this !
Second, you really need to search long and hard and do some soul searching and decide do want to really make an effort to rectify the problem ?
It wont be easy and it will be a long hard fought battle and journey you have to undertake.
As you go on this journey, you need to find other outlets to satisfy and reduce stress. Exercising is one big outlet that I use to cope with Stress. It is such a benefit and it will improve your physical and emotional state to a degree that you wouldn’t believe.
Other kinds of outlets include hobbies, reading, fellowhipping with others, and basically keeping busy with things that are not destructive to your Mind and Body.
Staying in shape and staying slim is a long term commitment that does take work. Just like anything in Life you will have to put in this work to see results.
It just as simple as that.
But remember once you get your Mind right and your Spirit right then you will definitely be on the right track for Success !! 
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